The Best Toys for 3-Month-Old Infants, Tested by a Mom and Baby
When baby reaches the three-month mark, they’ll begin taking in more of their surroundings, imitating those around them and becoming more social (get ready for a lot of smiles!). To promote healthy development socially, emotionally and physically, you’ll want to ensure that their playtime is full of age-appropriate fun.
“Young infants have different needs from toys than older babies, as observation is a key method of learning at this stage,” explains Jana Sarno, BCBA, a board-certified behavior analyst and the chief clinical officer of Hopebridge Autism Therapy Centers.
Knowing which toys are best-suited and age-appropriate for baby can be confusing. As a mother of four, including a 3-month-old who helped test all the products below and more, I’m simplifying your search based on how these toys actually performed during play. Read on to learn more about upcoming milestones to expect and how baby’s blossoming skills will translate to play, as well as our favorite toys for 3-month-old play.
The Bump team conducted exhaustive market research to identify the best toys on the market, and chose a shortlist of 11 toys to test. From there:
- I personally tested the toys with my own 3-month-old. We played with each toy at least three times and rated each for ease of use, play and entertainment, learning and skill-building, durability, child’s reaction and value for money.
- We interviewed a childhood behavior analyst and a pediatric occupational therapist to understand essential features and safety considerations to keep top of mind as you shop and your little one plays.
- Because no two children are the same, we scoured forums and message boards and read user reviews to see how these toys performed for a variety of families.
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Best 3-month-old toy to encourage grasp
- Easy for baby to hold
- Lightweight
- Affordable
- Can’t be submerged in water to wash
- Soft rattle sound
Created specifically with little fingers in mind, the Bright Starts Oball Easy Grasp Shaker Rattle features flexible, yet firm material on each end for baby to squeeze and hold. The textured handle contains colorful beads that create a soft rattle sound with every move.
As 3-month-olds are still working on developing their grasp, I found many rattles to be too heavy or simply too big for my baby to hold on her own. Thanks to the easy-grasp design of the Oballs, this was my 3-month-old’s favorite rattle since she could loop her fingers through the ends and actually hold it herself. She enjoyed the soft sounds it made when she moved it around and even chewed on the ends of it like a teether. Although some customers found the rattle sound to be too soft, I found it to be perfect for my 3-month-old as it was loud enough to get her attention without startling her or being overstimulating.
While this rattle earned high scores in every category, I awarded it 10 out of 10 scores for durability and value for money. I was shocked that it was priced at less than four dollars! We’ve owned other Bright Starts Oball products in the past and they’ve lasted for many years, so there’s no doubt in my mind that this rattle will stand the test of time. I anticipate that it could be passed down to multiple children, which I don’t typically expect from toys at this price point.
Dimensions: 2.2" (H) x 5.5" (W) x 2.2" (L) | Weight: 1.4 oz. | Age rating: 0 to 36 months | Care instructions: Wipe clean
Our product tester says:
“I would definitely recommend the Oball Easy Grasp Shaker to other parents who have a 3-month-old baby. This has been the only rattle that my baby can hold onto by herself and she has enjoyed being able to make noise.”
Best 3-month-old toy for sensory exploration
- Includes a variety of toys that promote sensory exploration
- New kits delivered every two months
- Skip or cancel subscription any time
- Higher price point
- Requires subscription
Curated specifically with 3-month-olds in mind, The Charmer Play Kit by Lovevery will encourage baby to make new discoveries using their mouth, eyes and hands, earning it a spot as our top pick for sensory exploration. Each kit comes with a variety of age-appropriate toys, as well as a play guide full of expert tips to help parents understand the “how” and “why” behind each included item.
Overall, this play kit was an easy favorite for both me and my baby, earning 10 out of 10 scores in every category. I found many of the toys, such as the mirror, crinkle paper and soft book to be perfectly in line with my 3-month-old’s current abilities, and there were other items that she will grow into in the coming weeks. I was especially impressed with the mirror, as it was at the perfect angle for my baby to actually see herself and we didn’t have any issues with getting it to stand up, unlike other floor mirrors we’ve used in the past.
A subscription, which delivers a play kit every two months for the first year, is required. However, you don’t have to worry about signing your life away, as you can easily skip a delivery or cancel the subscription at any time by logging into your online customer account. In the past, I've felt that the Lovevery kits were higher priced than what I was willing to spend myself. But after handling the kit myself, I’m actually impressed by every aspect of it; it’s well worth the money.
Dimensions: N/A | Weight: N/A | Age rating: 3 to 4 months | Care instructions: Wipe clean
Our product tester says:
“Although it’s priced higher than other toys, the kit comes with all the toys you would need for your baby during that time, as well as educational information for caregivers to better understand what their baby is learning, and how to better help them develop and grow.”
Best 3-month-old toy for strength-building
- Keeps baby entertained during tummy time
- Three modes include music, animals and colors
- Requires three AA batteries (not included)
- Can be overstimulating at times
If your little one isn’t a fan of tummy time, an interactive toy like this one from Baby Einstein is sure to make the experience more enjoyable. This stimulating light bar is easy for small hands to activate and is full of auditory and visual delights. Plus, it’s easy to wipe clean (in case of inevitable messes), and its sounds can be played in English, Spanish or French, depending on your preference.
My daughter was intrigued by the flashing lights and music for short durations during tummy time and I found it to be especially useful to distract her once she started getting tired or fussy while on her tummy. Although she’s often content laying her head down during tummy time, the flashing lights on the light bar encouraged her to prop herself up on her arms and hold her head up high, which is ultimately what earned this light bar a spot as the best 3-month-old toy for strength building.
At just under $20, I gave the Baby Einstein Grow & Discover Light Bar Activity Station 10 out of 10 scores for durability and value for money. While the lights and music are entertaining for baby at a young age, I appreciate that it can also help them learn animal sounds and colors in three different languages as they get older. It can also be propped up using the stand on the back for seated play once baby is able to sit up.
Dimensions: 8.9” (H) x 12.6” (W) x 5.9” (L) | Weight: 1.1 lbs. | Age rating: 3 to 36 months | Care instructions: Wipe clean
Our product tester says:
“I would recommend this toy for a 3-month-old as it provides entertainment during tummy time, but also would be educational and interesting as baby gets older and begins learning colors, animals and languages.”
Best stimulating 3-month-old toy
- Kept baby entertained without overstimulating
- Soft plush material
- Interactive songs and games
- Not machine washable
Another standout pick in our roundup of the best toys for 3-month-olds is this adorable animated penguin. The sweet, singing stuffed animal is a favorite of Sarno’s because of how it supports cognitive development and can be used to teach imitation skills and concepts like object permanence. But my favorite thing about this toy? It was stimulating for baby and kept her entertained despite not having an array of bright, flashing lights or contrasting colors. In fact, she was actually engaged with this toy longer than many other toys that we’ve used, earning it 10 out of 10 scores for child’s reaction and ease of use.
My baby loved watching Kissy the Penguin’s arms move while it sang and talked about blowing kisses. I laid her on her tummy in front of it and she pushed herself up as long as she could to watch the penguin move. Unlike other toys that use flashing lights to attract baby’s attention, I appreciate that it wasn’t overstimulating no matter how long we played with it. My baby is also just starting to roll over more regularly, and there were numerous times where she would roll herself toward Kissy The Penguin, so I loved that the super soft, cuddly plush wouldn’t hurt her if she rolled into it.
Dimensions: 12” (L) x 5” (W) x 5” (H) | Weight: 1 lb. | Age rating: 0+ months | Care instructions: Spot clean
Our product tester says:
“My 3-month-old baby was very intrigued by the penguin singing and moving its wings. During tummy time, she worked very hard to push herself up to watch the penguin for as long as she could.”
Best comfort toy for 3-month-olds
- Cry activated
- Plays pre-programmed lullabies or voice recording
- Machine washable
- Cry sensor can be overly sensitive
- Requires two AA batteries
The Playskool Glo Worm provides a unique and innovative way to soothe your little one through pre-programmed lullabies and up to two minutes of personalized recordings, such as a voice message or favorite song. The plush soother toy allows caregivers to choose between cry detection (which can be activated for five hours at a time) and energy save mode (which won’t activate for baby’s cries but can still be activated by pressing its chest).
Although the Glo Worm appears to largely be geared toward nighttime, the American Academy of Pediatrics recommends waiting until after 12 months of age before allowing baby to sleep with stuffed toys. For this reason, I chose to use the Glo Worm as a daytime comfort toy for my 3-month-old. During her wake windows, I laid the toy next to her while I was nearby. If she started to get fussy, it would activate either the voice recording or pre-programmed lullabies—whichever setting we had selected—and she would instantly calm and perk up to listen.
At times the cry sensor was overly sensitive and would activate just from her babbling or cooing. However, in times where she was starting to get upset, it helped postpone the tears long enough for her to get a few more minutes of tummy time or for me to complete a task—which any parent or caregiver will surely appreciate.
Dimensions: 7.4" (L) x 2.9" (W) x 12" (H) | Weight: 8.8 oz. | Age rating: 0+ months | Care instructions: Machine washable
Our product tester says:
“It worked great once my baby got fussy during tummy time to keep her distracted for a little bit longer—sometimes just a few minutes, sometimes longer.”
Best 3-month-old toy for tactile exploration
- Can be used as a teether
- Easy to hold
- Fridge safe
- Soft rattle sound
- Can’t be submerged in water
Touch plays an important role in early development and how babies perceive the world around them. It’s how they take in information about shape, size, temperature and texture. The Winkel’s unique design of smooth, bendable loops encourages tactile exploration and hand-to-mouth coordination. Once they get a little older, it can also be refrigerated and used to provide cooling relief for baby's sore gums while teething—although you might find that baby enjoys exploring the slick, chilled tubes even sooner than that.
My 3-month-old loved the Winkel and immediately was able to grab it without assistance, thanks to its lightweight design and narrow loops. Unlike other handheld toys, she was able to hang onto it for extended periods of time and if she dropped it, she was able to grab onto it herself again. She was amused by the soft rattle sound when she waved the Winkel around, but she especially enjoyed rolling from her back to her side while licking and chewing on the smooth tubes. Although she isn’t teething quite yet, she was fascinated with the Winkel after it had been refrigerated and always seemed to enjoy the cooling sensation on her hands and mouth.
Compared to other toys we’ve used, the Winkel kept her entertained the longest, despite its simple design and lack of flashy features, earning it 10 out of 10 scores in every category. It has been a favorite for my baby and it continues to be one of the first toys that we reach for every day. Its smaller design is perfect for throwing it in the diaper bag when leaving the house and I often find myself reaching for it during diaper changes when she’s extra squirmy. If you’re looking for an easy-to-hold rattle and sensory teether, the Winkel will be a quick favorite for you and baby!
Dimensions: 5" (L) x 4" (W) x 3.8" (H) | Weight: 6 oz. | Age rating: 0+ months | Care instructions: Wipe clean
Our product tester says:
“My baby loved to hold onto it while she waved her hand around, but her favorite use of it was as a teether.”
Best 3-month-old toy for encouraging reach
- Wraps around car seat and stroller bars
- Kept baby entertained while on the go
- Extremely durable
- Velcro straps may be too short for some handles
Not only will the Infantino Spiral Activity Toy Racoon keep baby entertained during stroller rides, but baby won’t be able to resist reaching for the three dangling toys as they bounce and sway, which is why we awarded it the top spot for best 3-month-old toy for encouraging reach. The spiral design wraps around the stroller bar and features a variety of contrasting colors, textured fabrics and sound effects to engage baby’s developing senses.
My 3-month-old loved watching the dangling toys, which include a selfie apple mirror, a bird rattle and a flower teether, move with each bump and turn. She stayed busy during our morning walks trying to grab for them but was too little to reach quite yet. Although it was designed to wrap around stroller bars, my 3-month-old even enjoyed playing with it on the floor, and was especially interested in the crinkle sounds from the selfie apple mirror toy and the raccoon ears. She was able to hold onto it easily while rolling from her back to her sides and chewing on the teething ring.
Priced at under $15, I know this is a toy that will last a long time—we’ve had another version of this same Infantino toy for nearly six years, and used it for multiple kids, and it’s still in great condition—that’s why I awarded the Infantino Spiral Activity Toy Racoon 10 out of 10 scores for durability and value for money. If you’re looking for a high-quality toy that will help encourage baby to reach, while also keeping them entertained while on the go, this is the perfect toy for you.
Dimensions: N/A | Weight: 7.8 oz. | Age rating: 0 to 3 years | Care instructions: N/A
Our product tester says:
“I would absolutely recommend this toy for babies of all ages. My 3-month-old enjoys watching the dangling toys bounce and move. As she gets bigger, I expect that she will enjoy being able to reach and play with the toys during stroller and car rides.”
Best 3-month-old toy for visual development
- High contrast images for visual stimulation
- Thick, laminated cards
- More expensive than similar products
The Wee Gallery Art Cards provide six large, sturdy flashcards, which were designed with baby’s developing vision in mind. Baby’s vision is rapidly developing during the first 12 months of life, and the contrast of black and white images is easiest for newborns to see. They also aid in cognitive brain development, learning and memory through simple repeating shapes and edges.
Each of the six cards is double sided, featuring a black on white design on one side and white on black design on the other, for a total of 12 images. Although the designs appear very simple, the high-contrast patterns grabbed my 3-month-old’s attention and kept her focused as she studied each card. These cards actually kept her attention longer than many other toys, including those with flashing lights and sounds. They also gave my 3-year-old the opportunity to get involved—he enjoyed holding the cards for his baby sister and telling her about the different animals shown.
Some parents feel the cards are expensive, but I found them to be fairly priced for the quality, which is why I awarded them 10 out of 10 scores for value for money. These cards feel very durable and high quality, and I expect that they will last many years and could be passed down to future children. The brand also offers a variety of other collections, including pets, jungle and woodland themes, so there is sure to be something for everyone.
Dimensions: 5" x 7" | Weight: 7.4 oz. | Age rating: 0 to 1 year | Care instructions: Wipe clean
Our product tester says:
“I would absolutely recommend these cards to others and appreciate that babies can begin using them at a very young age. They would also make a unique and thoughtful gift for other new parents, as they are affordable, durable and help with vision development for all babies.”
Toy shopping for baby can be all fun and games, but there are several factors to consider when picking up the perfect gift for the 3-month-old in your life. First of all, you’ll want to choose toys that align with their abilities. According to Sarno, a few milestones typically reached by infants at this age include:
- Looking at their parents’ faces
- Vocalizing sounds other than crying
- Lifting their head when on their tummy
- Holding a toy when placed in their hand
- Smiling or showing excitement when starting to drink milk or when parent talks to them
- Tracking a moving object or person
To build on these developments, Danielle MacCourtney, MS, OTR/L, ATP, a pediatric occupational therapist and owner of Tiny Transformations Therapy Services recommends that parents engage baby in a variety of play positions and novel sensory experiences. This could mean introducing your little one to simple tactile play with light textures and rattles, or providing toys that encourage holding with two hands to work on midline orientation. Similarly, Sarno suggests that parents should choose toys for 3 month olds that can be explored via multiple senses. Mirrors, for example, inspire some of the earliest forms of communication—while also supporting physical skills such as upper body strength—as they can hold infants’ interest during tummy time. Toys for 3-month-olds with musical elements or simple visual contrasts are also great choices, as your newborn continues to learn about the world around them, adds MacCourtney.
As baby’s skill sets progress, it’s important to provide them with age-appropriate toys to help them grow socially, emotionally and physically. According to developmental experts, caregivers should keep the following features top of mind when looking for 3 month old toys:
- Small, lightweight designs. Parents should look for toys that are easy for teeny fingers to hold on to, Sarno says; infants are still working on the strength and function of their hands at this age. Finding 3-month-old toys that prompt baby to reach up while on their back will help them gain foundational grasping skills and promote in-hand manipulation, adds MacCourtney.
- Sensory stimulation. Sarno notes that light and sound can be motivating for babies, when used appropriately. Sensory toys with these features can encourage 3-month-olds to practice eye gaze on a play mat or work on neck strength during tummy time.
- Black-and-white color palettes. Since baby’s eyesight isn’t fully developed at this age, Sarno and MacCourtney both recommend black-and-white toys to engage your infant without overwhelming them.
- Play variety. When adding to baby’s toy box, consider getting a diverse range of playthings to incorporate different senses and motor skills into playtime. Changing up play—and getting baby used to tummy time—“are the most beneficial ways of increasing strength, endurance and co-activation of musculature required for the next developmental milestones,” explains MacCourtney.
About the writer:
Jennifer Wirth is a freelance writer and editor based in Indiana. As a mother of four, she enjoys writing about all things related to pregnancy, postpartum and parenting. She also regularly focuses on beauty, health and wellness topics and has written for a number of large publications, including Forbes Health, Shop TODAY and Yahoo. When she’s not writing or testing the newest baby products, you can most likely find Wirth snuggling her baby or cheering for her kids at one of their many sporting events.
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Danielle MacCourtney, MS, OTR/L, ATP, is a pediatric occupational therapist who holds a masters degree from Scranton University. She has pediatric experience in a variety of settings. Since 2014, she has been the owner of Tiny Transformations Therapy Services and the director of the company’s New York City and Long Island branches.
Jana Sarno, BCBA, is a board-certified behavior analyst and the chief clinical officer of Hopebridge Autism Therapy Centers. She has worked as the vice president of applied behavior analysis at North Shore Pediatric Therapy and as an infant development program administrator at Coyne & Associates Education Corp.
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